Understanding Differentiation

Excerpt from Essential Wholeness   by Eric Lyleson The more we investigate the nature of our experience the more are able to differentiate fact from fiction. Unconditional acceptance of the world and ourselves helps us to see through the myths and wishful thinking that has obscured our perception of the true nature of things. Seeing […]

The Power of Being Part of a Constellation Community – Representing

Through the Family Constellation process, the emotions that have been entrenched in families for generations and contribute to a range of dysfunctional behaviours and moods such as addiction, co-dependency, depression, anxiety­­­ and some chronic illnesses­ - can be identified, understood and released.

Serving as a Representative “Representing in a family constellation is a great honour that truly defies logic. Having the opportunity to step into the shoes of another person and feel their pain, their joy and the many emotions between these and display their messages of truth so another person can witness the bigger picture of […]

Trans-generational Trauma at the Heart of Many Issues

trans-generational trauma

Transgenerational trauma is the genetic passing on of emotional, physical, or social pain down through the generations. It’s not new. In fact, the concept of transgenerational trauma originated in the after WWII. It was then that various studies proved that children and grandchildren of Holocaust survivors demonstrated certain symptoms of trauma. Nightmares and emotional and […]

The Deep Science Behind the Enneagram

Eric Lyleson Enneagram

The Enneagram symbol is seen as a model of the underlying patterns that connect our knowledge of psychology, biology, physics, mythology and spirituality. Unlike other theories that show the Enneagram in a static two-dimensional way, this Essential Wholeness will broaden your perspective into an expanding multidimensional model, much like a three-dimensional spiral. With the right mathematics it might be represented as a fractal.

Book Review from Australia and New Zealand Journal of Family Therapy

Rick Hanson and Eric Lyleson

Book Review from Australia and New Zealand Journal of Family Therapy Essential Wholeness: Integral Psychotherapy, Spiritual Awakening and the Enneagram, Eric Lyleson, Balboa Press, Bloomington, Indiana, 2015 ISBN 978‐1‐4525‐2820‐5, PB, 408 pages Yvonne McDonell Essential Wholeness by Eric Lyleson uses an extensive range of philosophy, psychology and spirituality to describe us as people and to broaden our role as therapists. We […]

Evolve or Perish?

Although humans have become the most proficient species at fighting and fleeing, that is not what has been the main thrust of what has propelled us to dominate the landscape. Human evolution has been driven by our ability to respond creatively and cooperatively to challenges, as well as our ability to envision a better future and devising the means to achieve it. If we evaluate our reptilian predecessors who dominated our planet, we find that they were very good at the four Fs — fighting, fleeing, feeding and procreating, but had little ability to learn how to creatively and cooperatively relate to their world. Tyrannosaurus Rex — the creature at the top of the food chain — was the pinnacle of brutish reptilian power.

Psychotherapy and Spirituality?

Neuropsychology and Buddhist Psychology

 Essential Wholeness – Using the Enneagram to Integrate Psychotherapy and Spirituality Astrophysicists tell us the universe has been expanding at an accelerating pace ever since the Big Bang. Biologists tell a long and convoluted story of the evolution of life in which humans finally enter the scene on the last page of the last chapter. […]

What Paradigm Defines your Psychotherapeutic Approach?

Psychotherapeutic Paradigms – Dominant-submissive vs. Ecological Cooperation Many of those who adopt psychoanalytic theory contend that it is important for the socially constructed ego to maintain control over the emotional impulses of the id and other emotional impulses stored in the unconscious mind. The connections that can be drawn from the personal to the larger, […]